The Bright Side

Alice Peter


For years, there had been nothing but dirt and deafening silence. The kind of silence that makes one's soul shiver to its core. Less silent days, however, were marked with the chanting of angry protestors. "Stop killing our people," they would scream, before they too, were stifled. Then there were blue days with the gossip created when more passed away. "80 killed in Peshawar church bombing and 2 lynched by an enraged mob in Lahore, the entire community should just migrate," they would discuss. Therefore, it almost came as a surprise when, on a sunny morning, sounds of heavy machinery and fierce digging, started echoing in the air. When the nature of the metal structure became evident, the skeletons of thousands of Christians, buried in gora kabiristan, rejoiced in their graves.

Standing on a 20-feet underground base is the most significant symbol in Christian faith – a cross. And that’s not even the shocking part. Asia’s largest cross, ladies and gentlemen, stands tall and proud at the heart of Karachi: a city known for its many hate crimes on the basis of class, gender, ethnicity, religion, what have you. And yet, this tall structure, visible from afar, is allowed to live on; a privilege that the followers of this faith, on the other hand, do not possess.

Although the building of the 140-feet tall cross is an initiative of a Christian businessman, Parvez Henry Gill, it is rather commendable that he was granted the permission to carry on with his, rather ambitious, plan. For Gill, the message came in the form of a dream where God instructed him to build a cross for his community. And even though he kept his final objective hidden from the construction workers, the minute they discovered what they were building, 20 of them abandoned the project altogether in disapproval.

Ironically, however, Gill’s objective of promoting religious tolerance, by building the cross, included making it bulletproof. Earlier this year, BBC reported Christians constitute 1.6 percent of Pakistan’s total population. This means there are approximately 2.5 million Christians living in Pakistan. We all know how popular the country is when it comes to the ill treatment of its religious minorities in local and international media. Moreover, the already marginalized communities often become targets of terrorism activities in the country. In light of this information, Gill’s decision does not seem entirely baseless.

Nonetheless, how many other countries in Asia, even the so-called secular ones would allow their religious minorities to showcase their faith in a way that is so loud and concrete – literally? Therefore, those of us who despise the very idea of living in Pakistan strictly because of their religious inclination, think again. Denouncing our nation due to flawed ideologies of a few, does not necessarily overshadow the tolerance and desire for religious harmony of several others.

An article that appeared in Dawn on the subject of the cross, deeming it a symbol of hope for Karachi’s citizens, provided information on one worker’s decision to stay back and continue construction. Although 20 of his fellow workers quit building the cross, Mohammad Ali, called the project a “work of God,” and therefore is still a part of it. Now a pessimist who has made up his mind about leaving Pakistan and wishes to seek asylum in some other part the world, may consider this information ‘rare’ or an ‘anomaly.’ But realistically speaking, Pakistani Christians are children of the soil and if one out 10 siblings wants us to stay, then we stay.

Raise Your Hand If You’re Unmarried

Alice Peter


People often crack jokes about the five seasons of Karachi: spring, summer, autumn, winter and the ever so popular, wedding season – yes, in that order. Prior to my last experience of this wedding season’s magnitude, I saw those jokes as rather exaggerated. However, having attended a total of 20 weddings in the month of December alone, made me rethink my earlier stance on the situation. The agony of sitting through these many weddings is made especially worse if you failed to score a plus one invitation. With sympathetic glances, you are banished to the singles table because you are unmarried. Your only source of comfort, the dessert table across the hall, laden with gulab jamun and cakes, so you can drown your sorrows. Despite what we say to sound polite, most of us attend weddings for the love of free food. The greasy chicken curry and the many varieties of biryani tempt even the most health conscious ones to consider it cheat day. This menu, however, is now old news. Each wedding is aimed at being more unique than that phupo’s son’s wedding or this mamoo’s daughter’s wedding.

Hence, this time around, the menu too became a victim of extravagance. The quintessential shadi ka qorma was brutally replaced with presentation-wise even less appealing mutton kunna.

What became a spotlight stealer this season was chicken ala-kiev’s desi spin-off. Groups of guests hogged this stuffed chicken tray at the buffet table and chewed away at it while discussing how oddly great it tasted. Ironically though, the race of uniqueness left every wedding menu looking pretty much the same. In an attempt to be different, the favourite dish of Karachi’s citizens, biryani, was dropped out of the buffet list.

Instead, arrays of white rice dishes were introduced: all of which represented some region’s pulao. From Afghani pulao to your ordinary mutton/chicken pulao, each one had a different flavor to offer.

My eavesdropping escapades revealed that guests were somewhat disappointed with the uniformity in wedding food this season. An elderly lady, filling the plates of three grandchildren along with her own, scorned at the sight of fried fish. “What nonsense, why is no one keeping prawns this time,” she thought out loud.

With the obligation of attending a total of 10 to 15 weddings, you can’t blame guests for wanting more options, can you? All these mega weddings have to offer are mehendi dances; and trust me when I say, a good number of well choreographed, nerve wrecking and mostly cringe-worthy dances. Who needs a Pakistani version of ‘So You Think You Can Dance,’ when you have your very own ‘Mehendi Dance’? Okay, jokes apart, kudos to people who find the time and will power to put themselves and others through the torture; mainly will power, actually no, time. Of the many things I despise about contemporary Karachi weddings, the horrendous truck-art themed mehendis top the list. This is closely followed by having to watch people religiously respond to the call for food at weddings more than a call to prayer at any given day.

Nonetheless, weddings are a great place to meet potential future husband/wife as far as halaal relationships are concerned. An easy thing to do is to invite the same guest- list to your own wedding someday. But if your wedding lies in the wedding season of 2016, do take some time out to test everything on your buffet menu. Until next time then; fingers crossed.

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